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1. I received an email from ezmlm saying that mail addressed to me has bounced.What should I do?

2. After joining, what should I do?

3. Are there any guidelines on list volume?

4. Has the list ever discussed ...? (fill in the missing words)

5. Are there any areas to avoid discussing?

6. I'm going away for a few days, and I don't want my mailbox to be swamped with St Bede's mail. How can I stop mail temporarily? And then start again?

7. I haven't received any posts recently. Is there a problem?

8. How do I reply privately to a post?

9. Can I forward posts from this list to other friends?

10. I want to post something to this list and also to other places. Is this allowed??

11. I think people on this list would be interested in something I read elsewhere. Can I post it?

12. Are there any other hints for readers and posters?

13. Where can I get more help?

 

14 Someone has posted something I disagree with. What should I do?

 

15. Someone has posted something which I think violates the charter or guidelines of this list. What should I do?

 

16. Tell me about the Vestry

 

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1. I received an email from ezmlm saying that mail addressed to me has bounced. What should I do?
Don't worry, and certainly don't panic. For various reasons a certain proportion of email messages are not delivered as intended and are returned to the sender. (Quite often this is a problem with the particular ISP or a mailbox that has become over-full or jammed with a very large message.) That is called bouncing. If ezmlm, the software which runs this list, finds a number of posts to a particular address are bouncing then it checks out whether this address is still receiving mail. The first stage in this process is what you have experienced, and ezmlm will now be satisfied that your address is still valid so no further action is needed.

More generally, if you notice that you are not getting the volume of posts that you expected then there may well be a problem with your ISP. If they provide web access to your mailbox then access it that way and see if there is a particularly large post that might be causing the problem. If there is then look it on the website and/or delete it. Failing that talk with your ISP helpline.

If the initial check from ezmlm fails to get through then further checks will be made, following which you will be unsubscribed and will need to resubscribe - after checking that you are receiving posts normally again.

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2. After joining, what should I do?
We invite (but don't require) you to post a short introduction. That helps list members to get to know you a little, and to put your posts in some sort of context. Some introductions include complete faith histories, others mostly biographical details
If you're a new subscriber, it's always a good idea to read the list for a few days before you begin posting. That gives you the opportunity to get an idea of the "list culture".

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3. Are there any guidelines on list volume?
We all know that list volume can easily get out of hand. So at St Bede's we encourage members to post no more than 10 messages per day and no more than 100 per month (which averages around 3 a day).
We hope this will encourage talkative members to exercise self-restraint in posting, and quiet members to post without being overwhelmed by volume!
We assume that list members will be self-monitoring. If members consistently post above these guidelines, they will be contacted by the vestry.
There are a number of ways to make the most of your posts:
· Try to keep to things broadly Anglican.
· Private discussions unrelated to the topic shouldn't be sent to the list. If you notice that only 2 or 3 list members are contributing to a particular thread, you may wish to take it off list.

· Avoid sending posts just saying 'I agree,' 'Me, too,' or 'Amen.' You can always send these privately.
· Explain yourself, think new thoughts, explore possibilities, challenge wrong beliefs, make lists of good books, go into detail. Don't put in your two cents' worth - make it more like a dollar (or pound, or rand, or mark, or whatever).
· Try to write one post commenting on all the discussion on a particular topic, rather than sending a separate post to respond to each individual post in a thread.
· Try to limit the amount of included material - just snip the relevant section needed to establish the context, and place it at the top of your response.

· Read all your mail before replying: someone else may already have answered a question or made the same point.
And don't worry too much if you get behind in reading - life happens! Just delete what you don't get around to reading, and jump back in when you have time.

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4. Has the list ever discussed ...?
(fill in the missing words)
Probably. That doesn't mean we can't return to it, but it's a good idea to check in with the vestry if in doubt, especially if the topic is controversial.

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5. Are there any areas to avoid discussing?
The list tries to be as open as possible to all discussions.
However, if a discussion on a particular issue degenerates into name calling or becomes destructive in nature, or where it becomes an extended discussion between only a couple of list members, the vestry may request participants in that discussion to take it off the list.
Our experience of such discussions leads the vestry to request that discussions of partisan politics, both secular and ecclesiastical, not be conducted on this list. Other issues which should be treated with care are the ordination of women, and issues surrounding homosexuality.

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6. I'm going away for a few days, and I don't want my mailbox to be swamped with St Bede's mail. How can I stop mail temporarily? And then start again?
If you're not going to be able to read your email for a while, you can stop getting posts by unsubscribing. The listserver software used for St Bede's doesn't have a 'no-mail' option. To get mail again, you'll need to subscribe from scratch.

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7. I haven't received any posts recently. Is there a problem?
Email the vestry vestry@list.via-caritas.org and let them know. They will be able to tell you if it's just you, or if the list as a whole is down. It's better not to mail the list as a whole, because that will just clog it up when it begins working again. If the main list _is_ down, the backup list will most likely be in use.

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8. How do I reply privately to a post?
You need to replace the 'To: stbedes@list.via-caritas.org', which your mailer has put at the head of your message, with 'To: [Original sender's address]'.
It's very easy to forget to do this (we call it a _blatt_), and even experienced members of the list have made the mistake of sending private mail to the entire list--which can be very embarrassing - so always double check before you send!
If you want to mail a list member individually then it is safer to begin a new message and paste into it text that you wish to forward, rather than using the reply-to feature of email software. Not filling in the To address until the last moment -- after you have written the message -- also helps prevent 'blatts'.

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9. Can I forward posts from this list to other friends?
If you read a post which you would really like to pass on, the best thing is to check with the original writer. In some cases they may not mind; in others they may ask that you include additional material (e.g. contextual information or a copyright notice) or request that you not pass it on. This includes prayer requests.
Of course this a public forum: anyone can subscribe. So nothing written here is absolutely confidential; however we try to respect people's intentions to post things to this forum (and not more widely).
I want to post something to this list and also to other places. Is this allowed?
Absolutely, if it is your own original work. But it makes some list members happier if you post it separately to each list, rather than stringing all the addresses in the "To:" field - it helps with filtering.
Subsequent responses/discussions/threads, however, should not be cross-posted to this list.

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10. I want to post something to this list and also to other places. Is this allowed?
Absolutely, if it is your own original work. But it makes some list members happier if you post it separately to each list, rather than stringing all the addresses in the "To:" field - it helps with filtering.
Subsequent responses/discussions/threads, however, should not be cross-posted to this list.

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11.I think people on this list would be interested in something I read elsewhere. Can I post it?

Generally it's better, if possible, to give us an introduction to the material and then a URL for it - that way we can follow up if we are interested. If it is not available on the net (e.g. it was posted on a list), then always give an introduction, and try to just quote the relevant parts.And material quoted from another list or private email without the permission of the sender should not be posted here.

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12. Are there any other hints for readers and posters? It can be a lot easier to follow the list if you use your mail system to separate your mail into 'folders', which enables you to keep the mail from this list apart from other mail. Often this can be done automatically as mail arrives, which allows you to easily read other mail first, and browse mail from the list at leisure. Always include a signature with your name, location and e-mail address at the end of each post. The article header's From: field will not necessarily contain your correct e-mail address. Many mail systems allow you to automatically include a specified signature file.Try to stick to only well known abbreviations. An exhautive (and exhausting!) list of abbreviations commonly used on the net can be found at http://www.abbrevguide.com/full/index.html Also common on the net are emoticons, which are combinations of symbols used to express emotions. Smileys are just one form of these; a list of common emoticons can be found at http://www.windweaver.com/emoticon.htm Please use line lengths of no more than 72 characters: this keeps your text within the 80 character per line limit of most terminals, in both your initial article and in any follow-up articles. Please check and edit your subject line before sending. If what you've written really fits the subject, don't change it. If you've picked up on one angle of the subject and are heading in a new direction, please change the subject line. Nobody wants to delete good stuff without reading it. Nobody wants to retrieve (and perhaps pay for) something that looks good to find out it was wrapped in the wrong package.

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13. Where can I get more help?
If you have any further questions about St Bede's, contact one of the Vestry members (see Tell me about the Vestry?)
If you have technical problems, please contact Charles Smith cts@5sc.net

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14. Someone has posted something I disagree with. What should I do?
Keep calm. Do not reply immediately.
Then continue to read your mail. It will let you see if someone else has already responded. Remember that someone else's response is probably almost as good as your own, as well as saving you some effort. Consider whether it might be better to reply by private email, rather than to the list.
In all of this, it's important to distinguish between commenting on the merits of a position or suggestion and criticism of the person who made it. Please keep to the former.
When you have written your response, before you post it, consider the whole matter again. Re-read your response, checking for errors of citation, logic, spelling, and fact. Check that it is correctly addressed, especially if you intend replying to the individual and not the list. Checking your mail before you send it will save you from much embarrassment.

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15. Someone has posted something which I think violates the charter or guidelines of this list. What should I do?
Don't email the list as a whole.
That tends to just increase contention. The best thing you can do is contact the person privately and try to resolve it, and/or contact the vestry and draw it to their attention.
The vestry is mindful of scriptural guidance on how we should act if we have a difference with someone, and so asks members to avoid judgmental posts, on and off list. An off-list post to seek greater understanding is fine, but flaming of a member on- or off-list is not.
The vestry is comprised of list members, so there is every chance we have read the post concerned, and may already have acted. Off-list flames in response to an on-list post may also be referred to the vestry. The vestry can be contacted at Vestry@list.via-caritas.org

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16.Tell me about the vestry
The vestry can be contacted at vestry@list.via-caritas.org

More information can be found under the topic Charter.

What actions can the vestry take? Most often the vestry response will be to ask for clarification from the person(s) concerned. Where someone has violated the list guidelines, the vestry may censure them - this functions as a warning. If they continue to violate list guidelines, the vestry may on rare occasions unsubscribe a member for a fixed period of time.

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